To understand the foundation of the 5 Qualities of a Muslim Parent, you'd need to first understand the 5 Basic Principles of Islamic Parenting.
I have written about this over on Productive Muslim, so hop on over and please read it from there.
If you want to read more on why children are born pure and good then please read my earlier article called 'Why Your Child is Inherently Good'. I wrote this because I couldn't understand why some people would think that children are born bad and that they need to atone for their sins by being good.
If you've been around young children like I have in my practice then you'd know that they have pure souls. They are so innocent. It's only the environment that teaches them to be bad.