tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post4865664163588460135..comments2023-08-07T00:03:15.256-07:00Comments on Muslim Parenting: Guide Your Child's Behaviour by CountingJameelahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15606651547801632035noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-48206235475416293242015-09-07T05:24:29.516-07:002015-09-07T05:24:29.516-07:00I like your take with beating the number. Children...I like your take with beating the number. Children do love a bit of competition.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-2601541948721612732015-09-05T20:23:51.165-07:002015-09-05T20:23:51.165-07:00Yes, I use it very often. :) I like to use it duri...Yes, I use it very often. :) I like to use it during clean up, kind of like a race. I ask them how long they think they will take to clean up, then I start counting to that number as they clean. They love to "beat" the number and finish before I've reached it. It's very effective!Autumn (It's Autumn's Life)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04370645239639985051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-9713869373166971242015-09-05T07:39:06.872-07:002015-09-05T07:39:06.872-07:00I love the techniques you shared and yes i agree t...I love the techniques you shared and yes i agree that rewards should not be used... :)<br />and the idea of counting in different languages is great...<br />Shahneelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12559821620301742063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-61928837264257204722015-09-05T02:31:53.029-07:002015-09-05T02:31:53.029-07:00It's an adult's secret weapon :DIt's an adult's secret weapon :DAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-76671461975352312432015-09-05T02:30:41.444-07:002015-09-05T02:30:41.444-07:00Yes, definitely there are many different rewards n...Yes, definitely there are many different rewards not all of them have to be tangible. I don't know much of Arabic but even now I still teach Arabic numbers to my prekindy kids. It's good to know many languages!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-61363988412566371122015-09-04T16:05:20.465-07:002015-09-04T16:05:20.465-07:00I always do this with my little cousins, I could n...I always do this with my little cousins, I could never figure out why counting was so effective though. <br /><br />P.s I love the counting in different languages idea :)<br /><br />Mariam(Upcomely)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12951018949771093975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-12700429042737108502015-09-04T09:33:16.779-07:002015-09-04T09:33:16.779-07:00I agree that parents should not overuse the reward...I agree that parents should not overuse the reward system, or even try different types of rewards such as verbal, praises, or physical like hugs and smiles or affection. This way, the child know that they even thought they don't get something physical like toys or treats, there will still be some positive reinforcement that will encourage good behavour. <br /><br />So impressive that you count in so many languages! I hope to be able to learn Arabic to teach my growing little one in shaa Allah :) Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16811741398219557993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-18791708370608186062015-09-04T01:03:32.466-07:002015-09-04T01:03:32.466-07:00I love it too. It's simple to use and has imme...I love it too. It's simple to use and has immediate effect.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-80050762097186503642015-09-02T22:11:47.252-07:002015-09-02T22:11:47.252-07:00I love this!!! Subhanallah!! I am totally gonna us...I love this!!! Subhanallah!! I am totally gonna use this technique when I babysit for now and inshallah when I have children of my own one day. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09193124940009751343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-44839340543287161472015-09-02T03:43:53.187-07:002015-09-02T03:43:53.187-07:00Yes do try it insha Allah. You know how when you g...Yes do try it insha Allah. You know how when you get angry and people say to count to 10? It's exactly the same thing, you're teaching your child to count to 10 before he explodes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-2245743369722433042015-09-02T03:39:31.765-07:002015-09-02T03:39:31.765-07:00Alhamdulillah.That's great that counting works...Alhamdulillah.That's great that counting works for you and your cousin. InshaAllah, it should work for most people.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-71867315141262744392015-09-01T11:59:51.120-07:002015-09-01T11:59:51.120-07:00Oh! I was a child counted to :-) but you're ge...Oh! I was a child counted to :-) but you're generous mashaAllah... My mom used to count only for three :-D<br />But were obedient chikdren, alhamdulellah...<br />My mom used the first and second scenarios with us. And yes, she was consistent.<br />But I really fell in love with the third technique...<br />InshaAllah I will be using them all with my baby boy :-DMama of Leohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02044785932775284406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-34888749250996901232015-09-01T11:58:44.773-07:002015-09-01T11:58:44.773-07:00I saw this technique first used by my cousin, befo...I saw this technique first used by my cousin, before I had any children and was amazed at how it helped her. I've done it for each of my kids as well, to mostly good results :-) And I'm so impressed your son can count in 4 languages!Rukuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12369506338134114899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-89615166241357689862015-09-01T03:37:13.604-07:002015-09-01T03:37:13.604-07:00"Thumbs up". I wish blogger would introd..."Thumbs up". I wish blogger would introduce emoticons in the comments section so I can give you a proper thumbs up :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-72483281814732385182015-09-01T03:34:24.476-07:002015-09-01T03:34:24.476-07:00Yes please keep me updated. I'd like to know i...Yes please keep me updated. I'd like to know if it works for you too.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13735289774874295909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-50506748381395998672015-08-31T12:12:42.788-07:002015-08-31T12:12:42.788-07:00I have a two year old who has started to throw tan...I have a two year old who has started to throw tantrums if she doesn't get her way. I will try the counting technique and inshaa Allah will let you know how it goes.TheMuslimahGuidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07003277277957019655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3147956467907600258.post-74582595931051534742015-08-31T10:10:38.004-07:002015-08-31T10:10:38.004-07:00MashaAllah love this technique. I do the same wit...MashaAllah love this technique. I do the same with my 3year old Mahanoorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13636455129716936014noreply@blogger.com